But above all these things put on love, which is the bond of perfection. Colossians 3:14 NKJV
The value and worth of each and every person is based upon the life that Jesus gave for us.
Through His Son, God has placed the highest value on each person. We care about others, not because we like their personality or because we have been treated fairly, but simply because God cares for them as He cares for us.
We all have needs; we all need forgiveness, and we all need Jesus. We can’t pick and choose the people we will be kind to, or respond to in love. (Well, we can but that is definitely not the heart of God. ) We can’t hide from people and wish they would go away either.
No, God is always reaching out to people, and He uses us to touch their lives too. This is the “bond of perfection”.